Lit by I love you Kristy always and forever. X0X0 22nd September 2017
An accident is an accident. And nobody is to blame for your passing. The one thing you deserved in life was to be forgiven and I'm sorry you didn't get the chance to be forgiven. So I'm going to say what is needed to be said. I forgive you over the times we didn't get along. I know we had some happy times together, you and I. You had a very loving side to you. That I'm thankful I got to know. I also forgive those who were upset at you at times if you ever felt bitter or resentful towards them. Because they didn't understand that you were not only grieving the trauma of having been separated from your family as a child. But also that you were a grieving mother. “Who” had lost your children to the same system that had also taken you from your own Mom. Just know your Mom Cindy loves you. And I know for sure you loved your Mom Cindy. The same rights that are given to Grandmothers with their own Grandchildren who lose their own Son or Daughter to the system. Or as a Grandparent who made mistakes when it came to raising their own Son or Daughter as a child. Or who were unkind to their own Son/Daughter as a child. Should be applied to those Mothers/Fathers who lost their own child to the system. It's only fair. You will always be the Mom who loved her own children despite how unfairly you were treated by a system who failed you and treated you as a criminal. “As” a scapegoat. “When” you were not a convicted criminal just a loving mom who was a scapegoat to the system. “Who” dearly loved her own children. “Who's” own children's absence at times during her life. Had left her with a fond heart for her own children. But feeling bitter and resentful at times towards adults or the system. Due to over being unfairly treated by the system. But you were always the loving mother who displayed nothing but kindness and tender-heartedness for her own children whenever she was with her own children. I love you Kristy always and forever. X0X0
This candle went out on 24th September 2017.